Amending a Point About the IRD Buy-out/Penalty

So previously I wrote a definition of the Interest Rate differential (see below w/ classic Family Guy moment). I am going to avoid my opinion on the preference for lenders to call the IRD a 'buy-out' instead of a 'penalty' (which it is, oops). 

Interest Rate differential (IRD) If you wish to perhaps buy out your mortgage as you found a better rate elsewhere or wound up with a lot of extra cash, an IRD is what your bank will charge you for breaking the term's agreement. It handcuffs a lot of owners who may wish to take advantage of lower rates as an IRD can run into the thousands of dollars. Simply put, the IRD can be equivalent to a kick in the balls when you check into how much it would cost to pay out your mortgage.

there's your IRD!

Anyways, the large kick to the balls when you find out that if you wish to take advantage of lower rates will cost you $2000-$20,000 is the #1 reason people stay with their current mortgage lenders. 85% of these people inquiring as to penalties buy-outs are with the Big Banks. They, in turn, are being pro-active in keeping you (their best, loyal contributor to their shareholders) from switching over to a smaller lender that offers better savings.

That's just the interest I'm paying for my mortgage?

YET, is that penalty buy-out enough to stop you from investigating your options? 

5 Reasons to Avoid Big Bank Mortgages

In Canada, there are few things guaranteed. Snow. Taxes. Roll up the Rim to Win.

Wearing out your snow shovel...

We want guarantees. We need them. So when we want that feeling of security that only home ownership provides we turn to the first thing that we think may be able to help us financially; our parents.

But what if you are past that stage of wanting/needing parental assistance? Your second choice is most likely your financial institution. After all, you've been with them probably ever since your parents set you up with your first bank account in a perhaps misguided attempt to teach you about savings and earning interest.

I know that's where I started. I was told that the banks will 'give me money on the money i give them'. It was called interest. So every once in awhile my folks would take me to the local bank and I would give the teller my bankbook and some birthday money from Gramma and the teller would take my money and give me the book back. Inside it were numbers; my previous balance, the money the bank gave me for keeping it there, my deposit and then finally my new total.

The one time i remember registering how much my bank was giving me it was 11 cents. I probably had not been in there for a few months. I remember thinking 11 cents isn't very much. Fast forward 30+ years and I'm still wondering when I'm going to be getting paid for giving my money to the bank to hold for me so that robbers wouldn't get it.

I digress. You are a grown up now and want to buy a house. You need a mortgage because you don't have $400,000 built up from the interest you have earned from your bank. So, after your parents say no, you decide to go to the only place you know that deals with big amounts of money; your bank.

Is that your smartest choice?